Let no one look down
on your youthfulness, but rather in speech, conduct, love, faith and purity,
show yourself an example of those who believe.- 1 Timothy 4:12
I have had the pleasure of mentoring and just being around
some very mature young people in my ministry. I have had some of the deepest
conversations with several of them and have been challenged in my faith while
answering their questions. I have heard some things out of their mouths that
have caused me to cringe but, I have also heard things out of their mouths that
have made me grow. These young men and women are some of the brightest people I
have met and some of them are, statistically, people who should not be able to
have these conversations.
Some are raised in low-income households, single parent
homes, and foster homes. They have been in and out of juvenile facilities, and
much more. I have met girls that have been abused, raped and molested but, they
are resilient and have become some of the strongest young women I have
encountered. Their experience in life has caused them to grow up too fast, yet
gain more maturity than some 20 or 30-somethings I know. They have had to learn
how to fend for themselves and keep living. They have learned how to speak to
get their voice heard and when to stay silent in order to hear others. They
have chosen to step up and serve, even when they should be the people being
served.
It is incredible to be a part of this work and witness young
people rise to action. These are students that are looked at as being just “students”
but, I am sure they can teach us a thing or two. They are looked at as being
kids but, they act more adult than some adults do. They rise to the challenge
of life and are willing to take it head on. They set examples for their peers
and for their community as they do what they do best: Live!
We do a disservice to young people when we ignore their
talents or abilities. We hinder their potential when we choose to speak for
them. Let us acknowledge that maturity is not something you gain by age, but by
experience. Through that experience we gain the ability to know when to speak and
when to listen or when to speak up or stay silent. These young people may have
something to teach us, but we have to allow them to do it. Maybe, just maybe,
we will see the change in our society we long for with young people knowing
adults are valuing their experience.
Question: How would communities change if young people were
more involved in decisions? How can the Church benefit from youth feeling as if
their experiences matter?
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