So, today I got the “finger”. You know, that one that flies
out of the window when someone cuts you off or honks at you for no reason. Of
course, I would expect all of you reading this right now to gasp and say “Well,
I never have experienced nor shown such a gesture in my life! I am appalled!” And all I can say to that is…yeah right!
I didn’t do anything to deserve this gesture. I pulled up behind
the guy in his discolored 1995 Ford Taurus (he might have been jealous of my
2005 Dodge Stratus), but we were both parked at a red light. We were there the
same amount of time. My horn doesn’t even work, so I know I didn’t honk at him.
All I did, when the light turned green, was lift my hand to scratch an itch on
my forehead. Then, suddenly, this man’s hand came out of his window with no provocation
and he flipped me “the bird”!
Now, he tried to speed away (remember 1995 Ford Taurus), but
I caught up to him (2005 Dodge Stratus) and we both stopped side by side
awkwardly at another red light. I looked over at him with a smile and he looked
back at me with a face only a mother could love…no really, he had such an angry
face only his mother could love it. I think he was shocked I pulled up next to
him, but his window was cracked as if he was waiting for me to start something.
However, I kept my window up and awkwardly smiled as if to say “I’m not sure
what just happened back there, but I’m confused.”
As I beat him off the line when the light turned green, as a
good Christian would, we went our separate ways. As I went to the interstate
and he drove to another location with smoke flowing ever so beautifully from
his tailpipe, I couldn’t help but think about the man’s anger. Why did he flip
me off? Did he not like my glasses? Did I accidentally flash my lights? Did he
not like my history podcast I was listening to (I’m a nerd)? I wanted to know.
Or, was he just an angry guy with a story no one has ever listened to?
I started to wish I rolled down my window. I started to wish
I would have said, “Hey buddy! Let’s pull over and have a chat about that
little finger you showed me. It looks like it has been through some rough
stuff.” But, I didn’t. Which probably makes my wife happy, but I wonder what
would have happened? Some people are just angry, but some people just want to
be listened to. He may have misunderstood the scratching of my head and took it
as an angry foreign gesture similar to the finger, but I wish I could have
found out.
This man, most likely, has some hurt inside. At least,
enough anger to bring him to the point of flipping off an innocent driver of a
stratus. His story is just as important as mine. I wish I could have heard it.
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