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I have a confession to make: I used to hate on people! I
know, it may be hard to believe, but I seriously used to look at people with
judgment, disdain, ridicule, mockery, and other not so nice adjectives. I
couldn’t handle people who were more successful, possibly funnier, popular…basically
BETTER! I struggled with the fact that there was possibly someone who might be
better than I am at anything, even if I knew it was true!
That is the truth about haters! Haters will hate because
they can’t handle the truth that they are not as good as they have built up in
their head. As Jack Nicholson said “You can’t handle the truth!” There will be people who are not willing to
accept what they know, which is they are not the best at everything.
The sad thing is, there are people who proclaim Christ that
can’t come to grips with this reality either. We have worship leaders who won’t
relinquish their microphone or piano stool due to the possibility someone might
do better. We have pastors who won’t step away from pulpits so an up and coming
pastor might speak in fear of the congregation “liking” them better. Youth
pastors who will not acknowledge the fact that maybe, just maybe, one of their
volunteers might be funnier or better at speaking. The list can go on and on.
We will all face haters in life, but we must recognize that
we may be one our self. When we can first admit that, we are one step closer to
handling the naysayers we face. We must then look to the example Christ set for
handling those who try to bring us down…Love them!
In order to move beyond my hating, I had to come to the reality
that I have gifts, but I am not gifted at everything. I had to look to others
with the respect they deserve and appreciation for what God has given them to
be great at! Then, when people express hate towards me, I look at them with the
eyes of my former self. I see the insecurity, I see the pain, I see the need
for acceptance, and I love them for who they are as broken people created by
God.
We are all victims of the fall and two of the consequences
are comparison and insecurity. We are made to go beyond hate and move to
encouragement. The truth about haters is they know the truth and it hurts. The
truth about followers of Christ is we know the Truth, and He is love!
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